CO-CREATING YOUR REALITY
The Right Way
I first wish for you to know that our desires and dreams are our all-knowing higher self’s guidance. It is reassurance that we can have all that we desire, because it actually already is our somewhere in our lifetime’s timeline. Your desires are what is already yours.
This is a six part practice. The point of the exercise is to stop sending the Universe mixed signals. These six steps guide you to outline what you truly want, eliminating what we tell the Universe “want”, which is what we don’t actually want, but choose, due to limiting beliefs.
What is Manifesting?
We are manifesting with every thought (and also beliefs), every emotion, desires (thought), and with every intention. We are, at our true nature—co-creating our reality along side the Universe/Divine/Source/God. We attract the reality we are in, but we never are limited to the reality we can have, and especially the one which is full of abundance and joy. Source IS abundance and joy, and you are an extension of Source, so it is all yours for the taking!
This practice’s intention is for you to get CLEAR on what would bring you abundance and joy, and to decree and declare it for yourself—once and for all. It is for you to move away from what is not aligned with our highest good, and move towards, attract, and retrain your brain to remember, and once again believe… what is.
We must put it out into the Universe to manifest. We must affirm our hearts desires, and start remembering that the sky is the limit of what we deserve, and the Universe wishes for us to embody. This is so that it can manifest from energy (thought/desire) into material form/matter/experiences/tangible possessions/ways of being, so on, into our reality. You will get it, or better (the Universe always knows what is in your best interest).
You are deserving of the most beautiful life, and it’s time to stop accepting anything less than that.
My Manifesting Experience
Again—we are manifesting our life into our existence. All that is, is a manifestation of what we have attracted into our lives through thought; the good, the bad, and the ugly. All of it. In my awakening, I was shown that I manifested many things through thought. I was guided to understand the importance of thought in creating reality, and the lesson came to me in the most powerful way; going through the darkest mental state of my life. The struggle and the mental disorder, and all of the chaos occurring, was my manifestation; I CREATED it all through years and years of negative self talk and false beliefs. But guess what; I also created my healing through the opposite; positive self talk, unlearning, and the universal laws.
Please remember that your desires are what is already yours in your lifetime’s timeline. You are being guided and given confrontation that IT CAN BE. My current desire is speaking so strongly to me, and since we are always guided, I know I am being given direction to work on this, as it is what is for the greatest good for all (obviously including my family and myself).
The brain believes what we tell it. It formulates beliefs surrounding the thoughts we cycle, reactions of emotion to events which create internal experiences, and to the habits we formulate in our lives. The brain truly doesn’t know right from wrong, good from bad, or truth from untruth. Our reality is created through thought. Do you see how much power you have?
How Do I Know This Works?
Because I have gotten to the point of believing that everything I desire… is mine and is coming to me. I know it in my bones. I know it as if there is no other possibility for a different reality, even if I’m open to all, possible realities. I know this truth as much as the truth that my name is Aneta.
Ever since I was little, I remember creating floor plans and 3d layouts of dream homes. In my 20s, I even went to school for architectural drafting. I have been envisioning a home in the mountains; one we build custom, ever since we moved to Westminster, CO. It’s a Spanish style home, with arches and a modern/Spanish interior, with white walls and beautiful Spanish tile and rustic doors. I see it in my mind and know every square inch of that home as if it already exists. I feel it as part of me. I have gratitude for it, and have a clear knowing of its manifestation.
I have received miraculous Divinely guided confirmations that this home is already being created, and the path to it is already in the works by the Universe. I see reminders to hold faith and keep beliving when my mind tries to come in and tell me that it is not possible, and that I’m just a dreamer living in illusions. I have seen parallels where it does exist, and I am given glimpses of my family and I living in it. These aren’t “wishful thinking” glimpses or daydreaming such as I use to manifest it—it is a vision or bursts of filmstrips which seem to come out of the blue into my mind’s eye, and create such euphoria, that I can’t even place words on paper for the emotions experienced. It is as though I am feeling the gratitude for having it there, here.
This exercise has not only taught my brain that this is mine, but simultaneously has me attracting it faster and easier, has created new, higher vibrational beliefs about what I deserve, and has completely revamped my reality on what creation of experiences and “life” actually is. I have created a connection to my desire with emotion and gratitude, and know that I now just must surrender to the “how” and take inspired action when the Universe presents me with the “how” of receiving the desire. It has changed my world into knowing I am capable of having anything I want, and knowing that belief is what will get me there. I have found a deep knowing that I do deserve everything I desire, because Source is giving and loving; Source IS joy and abundance. The sky is the limit. Truly— anything is possible.
THE STEPS
STEP I
Your Desires
You can start with notating 5 desires. If 5 is too many, feel free to start with just 1, or even 3 desires. You want to write down each desire on it’s own piece of paper, allowing room for 1 to 2 pages for step III.
Example Desires:
1. Your dream home/living situation
2. Ideal joy from a loving relationship
3. Your dream job
4. Financial abundance
5. Freedom to live life on your terms
STEP II
Intention
You will need an intention for each desire. This is your “why”. You will find that most of the why’s will bring you to happiness or joy or alignment, which is what we are meant to have. The point of this step is to re-teach your brain what you are meant to have, so it stops going with the choices offering less than that.
Examples Intentions:
1. Your dream home/living situation
Intention: Because it will make me happy to have everything that allows living to be i comfort and convenience.
2. Ideal joy from a loving relationship
Intention: I am ready to be loved fully and give the same love in return.
3. Your dream job
Intention: So that I’m always happy to go to work, never stressed, in control of my own day, financially secure and happy in my work environment.
4. Financial abundance
Intention: So I may live life on my own terms, because freedom, joy, and abundance brings opportunity for more freedom, joy, and abundance.
5. Alignment with my higher self
Intention: So I may be always listening to the guidance, and live in the most loving state of mind, with clarity on everything that comes my way.
STEP III
Scripting
Creating the actual desires in a sentence. This is also known as scripting. We are using our imagination. We are daydreaming. We go through the desire as if we already have it, and almost pretend to view ourselves living with that desire, the intention for it, and the emotions the intention brings.Make sure you start each sentence with “I am” or “I have”, as if you are already living this life or have these desires. For each desire, you write down
What you “have”
The intention for why you are attracting it
DETAILS. Add details that create high vibrational emotions like - peace, gratitude, joy, bliss, ease, excitement.
Start each desire and its sentence with this sentence, or something similar. This is an example for #1, so you would insert each desire and intention into the underlined shown below.
“I am living life in my dream home. I have all of the below, or better, and am open to even more amazing possibilities to flow to me, as I am constantly attracting amazing bliss into my life. This has made me happy to have everything that allows living to be in comfort and convenience for my greatest good.
Then continue the sentence with the DETAIL.
Example Sentence Continued:
For desire 1., your sentence will have the above, and then sound something like this..
“It brings me gratitude when I am surrounded by windows with Mountain View’s because the mountains feed my soul. And I can’t even believe it... when I was told how affordable this home was, I gasped. The Universe has got me covered, because it’s waaaay below my price point; allowing for massive savings and never to have to worry about money again. I have enough room for myself and for family to feel comfortable when they come to visit, which is quite often. The high end appliances I have make my life easier, are pretty to look at, and allow for time so I can spend it more productively. I have an amazingly spacious shower with a window facing Mountain View’s, giving me such relaxation every time i shower. The open space is perfect for my cats to run around and have fun. My 4 post king bed is exactly what I’ve always wanted, and I have the softest, organic, bamboo sheets, which always allow me to rest easily and comfortably, letting me recharge for the days ahead. The wide plank oak floors.. they are so beautiful and I feel such gratitude every time my feet touch them, because it brings me joy to look at pretty things.”
You get the point! You will do this for all five of your desires!
STEP IV
Release the “How”
Release all assumption on HOW it all will come or happen. God is at work 24/8”7 on you behalf. There are 100s of puzzle pieces working to get you to an abundant and happy life. We assume work/money is the only way to buy the home of our dreams, but the possibilities are ENDLESS, because the Universe is a master of creating in endless routes.
Food for thought: my sister told me that her friend follows this one you tuber. The YouTuber posts informative videos on A random topic. One time, YouTuber posted a video about manifesting, and she explained in the video how one day... she got an email from a random stranger. The stranger said that he was so happy and so pleased with her YouTube channel, and that they help him so much, he was wondering how he can send her a donation of $5000. I mean... NO ONE could have assumed that or predicted that, right?!
STEP V
Declare Aloud
Once you finish writing, you with read it aloud. You will then finish up and read THIS.
State: I release the old ways of thinking and embrace the new way of being, attracting and opening doors for what is my destiny to surround myself with, to come. I release needing to know how this will come, and trust the Universe to work on my behalf. I ask for guidance/synchronicity/gut knowings to help me take inspired action to attract it. I thank the lessons life has brought me, and I am ready to up-level my life, because I deserve it. Thank you, Universe, and thank you, (insert your name), for being my greatest supporter and loudest cheering squad. I love you.
ONE LAST THING
Inspired Action + Raising Your Vibration
One last need to create is inspired action + raising your vibration.
When you take inspired action, you are allowing opportunity for your desire to come, but also giving energy into the process of materializing your manifestations. For example; I have no clue how this dream home will come, but I just trust that it will. I trust God has just the right combination of instances and opportunities for me to attract it, and manifest it. I surrendered the “how” but make sure to offer energy to the manifestations.
I play the lottery.
I make it fun (it’s supposed to be fun!!!)
I had contacted a designer to express interest of working with her for this build.
I try and grow my business so that it is profitable
I went to look at land which was for sale, as though I had an intention to purchase (as I do one day)
i keep an open mind when I go shopping, to restaurants, to the hardware store; so as to attract meeting someone who may be a piece of the puzzle to my manifestation.
I drive into the mountain occasionally; to find neighborhoods I can build within.
I have scripted (also inspired action)
I meditate and visualize myself in this home at least once a week, and express gratitude.
I have designed a rough sketch of floor plans of the home.
Within my morning meditation, I ask Divine for miracles and express being ready to receive.
I stay patient and in the present moment, creating gratitude for what I already have now.
I leave the door open for the Universe to bring me opportunity, and all I have to do is stay open to “paths” to that manifestation.
Inspired action will also raise your vibration, so win win! You can equally do a lot of self care, things you enjoy, to raise your vibration to ATTRACT something of equal vibration (your exciting desires).